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How to Care for Her Jewelry (and Her Keepsake Card)

How to look after every piece we make - message card necklaces, engraved necklaces and bracelets, the natural stone bracelets, and the keepsake card and gift box they arrive in.

Every piece we make is meant to be worn and kept for years. A few easy habits will keep her necklace shining, her hidden message opening smoothly and her keepsake card looking like the day she opened it. Here's how to look after each one.

The golden rule: last on, first off

Put her jewelry on after perfume, lotion, hairspray and makeup, and take it off before anything wet or sweaty. That one habit protects a gold finish more than anything else.

  • Take it off before showering, swimming, hot tubs and saunas.
  • Take it off for the gym, cleaning and gardening.
  • Let lotion and perfume dry before putting it on.
  • Wipe it with a soft, dry cloth after wearing.
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1. Message card necklaces

Our message card necklaces - Forever Love, Love Knot, Interlocking Hearts, Alluring Beauty, Eternal Hope, Lucky Charm, the zodiac and cross pendants - are made from polished surgical steel in an 18k yellow gold, 14k white gold, silver tone or rose gold and silver tone finish. Many are set with sparkling cubic zirconia. The crown pendant is .925 sterling silver with a 14k rose gold finish.

  • Clean: wipe with a soft, lint-free cloth. For a deeper clean, use a drop of mild soap in lukewarm water and a very soft brush around the stones, then pat dry and let it air-dry completely.
  • Avoid: jewelry dips, toothpaste, baking soda and silver polishing cloths - they can wear away the finish.
  • Protect the stones: take it off before anything where the pendant could knock against something hard.
  • Adjustable chains: fasten the clasp at the length she likes and keep it fastened in storage so the chain doesn't tangle.

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2. Engraved necklaces

Our engraved necklaces - the hidden message heart and circle, the secret message bar, the break apart heart, the heart and cross bar pendants - are laser engraved in 316L stainless steel, so the words won't fade or rub off. The steel is tarnish-resistant, but a gold or rose gold finish still lasts longest when it stays dry.

  • Hidden message heart: open the two halves gently with your fingertips and close them the same way. Never force them further than they want to go.
  • Secret message bar: slide the inner bar straight out and straight back in - don't twist it while it's open.
  • Break apart heart: each half is its own necklace. Line the wavy edges up gently to join them, and store each half on its own so the edges don't scratch.
  • Clean: a soft cloth, or mild soap and water, then dry completely - especially inside the heart and the bar.

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3. Engraved bracelets

  • Cuffs: open and close the cuff gently from the middle, not the ends, so it keeps its shape.
  • Chain and bar bracelets: slide the adjuster gently and fasten before storing so the chain doesn't knot.
  • Natural stone bracelets: roll them on and off rather than stretching the cord, and keep them away from water, perfume and lotion - natural stones can mark. Wipe the stones and bar with a soft, dry cloth.

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4. The Love You Forever bracelet

The bracelet is braided vegan leather with stainless steel beads and a magnetic clasp engraved "love you forever".

  • Keep the braid dry: take it off before washing hands, showering or swimming. If it gets wet, pat it dry and let it air-dry flat.
  • Clean: wipe the braid and beads with a soft, dry cloth. Don't soak it.
  • The clasp: pull the two ends straight apart rather than twisting, and keep it away from phones and bank cards, as with any magnet.

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5. Her keepsake message card

For a lot of daughters, the card is the part she keeps longest. A few ways to look after it:

  • Keep it in the box with the necklace, out of direct sunlight so the print stays crisp.
  • Frame it. A small frame on her desk or bedside table turns her message into something she sees every day.
  • Add it to a memory box with her birthday cards, graduation program or wedding mementos.
  • Keep it dry - away from bathrooms and kitchens.

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6. Storing her jewelry

  • Keep the gift box. The standard gift box, the white engraved-jewelry box and the mahogany LED luxury box are all made to hold her piece when she's not wearing it.
  • Fasten the clasp before storing so the chain doesn't tangle.
  • Store pieces separately so stones and edges don't scratch a gold finish.
  • Keep it dry - a drawer is better than a bathroom shelf.
  • Travelling? A small pouch keeps chains apart in a suitcase.

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“Can she wear her necklace in the shower?”

It's best not to. Water, soap and shampoo can dull a gold finish over time, so take it off first - even the stainless steel engraved pieces.

“Why has the color of my jewelry changed?”

A gold finish can wear with friction, lotions and water. Gentle cleaning and dry storage help - see the steps above. If a piece arrives damaged, contact us within 14 days of delivery with a photo and we'll put it right.

“Is it good for sensitive skin?”

Our engraved pieces are 316L stainless steel. If she has a metal allergy, check the materials before you order - they're listed for every piece under View product details on its product page.

“My hidden heart or bar feels stiff - what should I do?”

Make sure it's completely clean and dry, then open and close it gently a few times. Never force it or use tools to open it.

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